There are many single women who feel if things are not going according to their plan then they are just shit out of luck in the dating department. Some women in their late 20's to mid 30's are so fixated on finding a man to settle down and have kids with that they are not enjoying life for what it is. Many fail to realize that when you're not looking and just enjoying what life has to offer that is when that right person comes along.
The dating experts have come up with some tips to get the singles ladies thinking and I have presented them to you below.
- When meeting someone new smile and show your happiness- So many women forget to smile when they meet someone new, instead they want to dive in and ask the questions on their, "Is he marriage material list." It may sound insane but it's very true. Instead show your beautiful smile and the joy you have inside you and just go with the flow. Whatever happens, happens.
- Let your confidence shine through-When your confident in yourself and comfortable with you it causes a positive attitude which in turn causes your awesome attitude to shine through. No negative comments about yourself because sooner or later you may start to believe them and that will cause your confidence to go out the window. Plus it's unattractive.
- Take Control of Your Future- Do the things you enjoy and the things you have always wanted to do even if your single. This will bring happiness to you knowing that you can accomplish these things without having a man. For instance if you are stable enough to buy that house you always dreamed of having then go for it. Showing that you are fulfilled in life will be very alluring as it will not make that new guy feel like he is the only positive thing going on for you.
- Focus on the Now- This definitely coincides with #1 because instead of focusing on your goals you must reach before your deadline, with the guy you just met two seconds ago, focus on things you are interested in now. This will be intriguing to him and engage him to what to get to know you more. If you go for the, "I have to be married with kids by 35." Going for this approach may lead to no second date.
There you have it ladies, embrace life and enjoy yourself. Everything after that will fall into place.
Stay Fab!
