Do you believe you can find your way back to an ex after a break up or when it's over it's over?
When you fall in love with someone it is not meant to be easy or a piece of cake. Some of us fight the fight and get through the ups and downs but there are some couples who can't deal and unfortunately they drift apart. Although some of these couples may drift apart what happens when one or both realize they made the wrong decision and they want to find their way back to what they had as a couple?
There are a few steps that you can take to figure this out:
Step 1: Figure out why you want to get back with your significant other. Is it because you miss what you had together or is it because you don't want to be lonely. If it's because you miss what you had and you believe you can make it work then move on to Step 2.
Step 2: Make a list of the good and bad that went on in the relationship. If the good outweighs the bad then your relationship may be worth a second chance.
Step 3: Once you have figured out that your relationship is worth a second chance you must speak to the significant other and see if they are willing to give the relationship another try. You will not know unless you ask right?
Step 4: If the answer is yes, it's now time to talk things over and figure out why the break up happened in the first place. Once you do this you will have a better understanding of each other and you can now come up with ways to get through the hardships instead of giving up so easily.
Step 5: Start dating and getting to know each other again. Do the things you use to enjoy doing with each other at the beginning of your relationship that made you fall in love with each other in the first play.
I believe everything and everyone deserves a second chance but if it's a relationship where your breaking up every 5 seconds then maybe your actually getting back together for all the wrong reasons. When this is the case you must look deeper into yourselves and each other and figure out if you two really should be together.
In the end when you find that special someone who is worth fighting for go for it. True love and commitment doesn't come around that often and when you find it you must hold on to it if it's worth it.
Stay Fab!
