Men are not the most emotional creatures and will more then likely not want to share their feelings on a constant basis or at times ever. Instead of talking it out they may show how they feel through their actions. The majority of the time we can be oblivious to what's going on as you can see his wheels turning but it's like tooth and nail to get him to express himself. To cure your curiosity and answer some questions about men below are some facts that definitely clears the air.
- They will do things around the house like cleaning and laundry so it takes the pressure off of you. This may be a way for them to say they love you.
- They are serious about commitment but want to make sure they are on board 100% before taking the plunge.
- You may think your man is not listening when your speaking to him because more then likely he will not respond the way you expect him to. Don't worry ladies, he is listening, he is just taking it all in quietly.
- Men feel closer to their partners through activities more then sharing feelings.
- Men let go of negative feelings faster then women do. Remember that argument you had last night and this morning you woke up still wanting to talk about it, well you may be talking alone as he may have already let it go.
- Be direct with him in regards to how you feel as men don't pick up on the subtle cues.
- I know he is a man but you must show him and tell him that you appreciate him as he will feel more involved and appreciated.
- Men enjoy sex more within a committed relationship as they feel it to be more satisfying.
- They like you to pursue and lead when it comes to sex. Yes ladies they like to feel wanted also.
- They actually aren't always up for sex. Don't think just because he turned you down that he is not interested anymore, it's actually a proven fact that when a man is stressed or upset it kills his libido.
- He loves to pleasure you but you have to tell him what you want because duh he's not psychic.
- Men go through performance anxiety as they get older. Coax his ego and let him know he is as sexy as ever.
- He is willing to work on your relationship as much as you are. When a man is vested into the relationship he will not give up easily when there are problems. He will want to make it work as much as you do.
There you have it ladies the questions you have probably asked yourself about men and the secrets they wished you knew and now you do.
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