Fabulous ones this topic is for those in a relationship with a male who has female friends or for those who have had a prior relationship like such. The question is, do you mind your significant other having female friends?
Now there are different scenarios to the female friends in your guys life. For instance you have the female friend who your significant other may have grown up with and they have been friends ever since. Then you have the females at work who they may have developed friendships with. Then there are the exes who they may still be friends with. Lastly, does it make a difference if that female friend is single or in a relationship?
In regards to the above scenarios is there one scenario over another that you prefer? For instance the friend who he has known over the years vs. the ex.? I ask this because I have come across women who don't want their guy being friends with any females at all. There reasoning is not because they are insecure but it is because they don't trust other females as they can be trifling. Now is this an insecurity, jealousy or just the woman being cautious? For instance my hubby has female friends that he knew before me and he has some that he has met through work which I am comfortable with. My hubby is not friends with any exes but for those in this situation how do you adjust or do you not adjust at all?
My hubby has introduced me to all his female friends (only a handful) and they always tell me how much he talks about me. This could make a difference for the females who aren't comfortable with their guy hanging around other females. Honestly for me, I believe it all boils down to you trusting your significant other. As long as you have trust in your relationship it doesn't matter who your guy hangs out with as long as he is honest about it.
When secrets start to occur that's when things get awry.
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