Wednesday, December 8, 2010

The Gossipy Friend!



Do you have that gossipy friend in your life that talks about people all day everyday, talks about one friend to the next and vice versa?  I have encountered this and to say the least it can be so draining and extremely annoying. 

When I talk to girlfriends I like to talk about womanly things that we may be going through at the time,   exchanging ideas and thoughts, etc.  When we speak why must we speak about what the next person is doing especially in a negative light, personally I don't see the point because it makes me feel like we have nothing else to talk about.  I noticed that many of these types of friends like to talk about everyone else but never about themselves and they actually thrive on gossip.  They will keep their lives very secretive but will ask you 1001 questions about you and god forbid you tell them because when you do they will spread it to the next person.  Granted the world does go around with a bit of gossip but when your in a true friendship somethings should be kept sacred.  Lets just leave the gossiping to gossiping about celebs. 

When coming across these types of people you may consider them a friend but consider them a friend from the distance.  People that talk about everyone else aren't that happy with themselves and down the road this type of friendship will just become toxic. 

Remember to choose your friends wisely ladies.  Not everyone who smiles in your face is your friend.

Stay Fab!